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Saturday, April 2, 2016

Facebook Detox:: For Good!!

I have been on this all balanced life changing mental, emotional, psychological and physical healthy life change way of life. 
  One thing I have noticed, and I say this seriously, I find nothing good that comes out of Facebook.
I used it as a took to keep up with people I have not been able to whilst in Turkey. My husband two years ago went off, and I have decided to follow suit. There are too many people that are too immature and are borderline psycho on the internet, and base their friendship on what is happening to themselves on Facebook. They will even base their friendships on Facebook. People will post things and looks constantly for some kind of reassurance that they are validated by the number of "likes" they get, and now they have the ever stupid other emotions on Facebook. I know if someone who I care about or cares about me, I can text them, they can text me, and I can get ahold of them through other means. They know how to reach me if they really want to. 

The other thing about Facebook is that there is nothing good that comes with it. 
Case in point:: I know a person who was friends with me for years. Person has problems and, yet, went on my Facebook account and added all these people that I have known since High School, people this person has never met face to face. This person has big problems which I will not get into, but, had gone onto Facebook to start a smear campaign against me. REALLY??? This my Dear Readers is called Cyber Bullying. (and border line stalking) because said person was angry at me. Of course there are two sides to every story, and my side is without going into great detail, had betrayed me and my trust continually for the last 2 years. This is not an exaggeration. I am so tired of person's garbage, I had enough. I was horribly sad, but, when person ended the friendship, not me, person resorted to going on Facebook and, I ended up thinking, Ok, years ago before Facebook, would person had gone through the telephone book and called everyone in the book to talk about me and slander me? No, because that would be crazy. So, what is the difference between that and Facebook? Facebook is also very out-dated. It is the Myspace of Social Media. Reddit is the thing now but dont get me started. I think the best thing to do is to stay away from Facebooka nd Twitter and all that stupid stuff, and go back to to a more classier time. Get off Facebook and have real conversations with people who are really your friend. Spend time with family, do healthy living by meditation, studying other cultures and places. Write a blog. Do a Vlog. Don't do Facebook if you want to improve yourself. 

There it is. I am off for good and it is liberating. 
And I cleaned out the closet... That was liberating too. 
That story will be for another time and when it is approriate. But let's just say... Toxic relationships are to be flushed down the toilet where they belong. (Healthy choice tip number 3)
Ciao for now!

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