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Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Update to my Samsung NP 530

I thought I would give an update to my Samsung NP530.  About 3 and a half years ago I wrote about how Long Rock bought me a laptop. 
I still have Windows 7 on this because I was going to update to Windows 8 after the "kinks" were worked out of it, and then Windows 10 crept up on me. I have many friends that downloaded Windows 10 when they have had to replace their laptops, and in doing so, replaced with a Mac Pro. So, here I am with my trusted little laptop that is now 5 years old. No doubt, it's slow. I can't replace the battery, which needs a new one. The reason being is because this is an older laptop and so I will not be able to find one that is to this laptop's specifications. 
The screen is still great and the graphics are still really awesome, for the age of the laptop. (If you recall, when Long Rock bought this, graphics on this laptop was state of the art, because I wanted to be able to have something to play my games on it, and it still delivers.) Again, please keep in mind that this laptop is 5 years old. 
So, I am still running on Windows 7, possibly Windows 8, refuse to run on Windows 10, and if pressed, I will buy me a laptop that is an Apple to avoid Windows 10. Then I will download a couple of Windows programs. That is the best for me, but, there are others who might have a better option. Of course, I am not a techie, and so this option would would the best for me.  Another thing I did, being that this laptop was a new one from Turkey, and was a great deal, however,  I would like to say that I bought an American Keyboard, and change the keyboard to English. I think if I were to do it again, I would prefer to get a keyboard that lays over the original and not have lots of stickers, have it cover the original Keyboard. Of course, I will not have to worry about it when I replace this one. I kind of wish that the laptops don't run down, and get slower. I quite like this one, and I don't want to keep changing every so many years. 
So, for the time being, I have what I need, and I like what I have.   

Sunday, June 12, 2016

Voting 2016

So, I normally don't use this blog as a platform for America's Political Campaign, however, I must say something. 

There is not one person worthy of a vote. I propose, if you are a wise American, you must know to write in a Vote. I am following suit with many Senators, and other wise Political Leaders, and writing in my vote. 

So, I say write in your vote. You can write in anything you want. Heck, put your pet's name on the ballot! But, Please, vote and just write in the person you will hope to become president. (I for one think my grandkids will make a better President) You'll be surprized what will happen. 

Peace, All!

Monday, June 6, 2016

EU, EU... What Are You Up To Now?

A few days ago, Reuters had an article that head lined read "EU hate speech deal shows mounting pressures over internet content blocking". The Areticle written by Yasmeen Abutalebwent on to explain how, last Tuesday an agreement by four major US internet companies were going to block illegal hate speech from their services in Europe within 24 hours. 
  
    Freedom of Speech. 
Why is that significant but, it didn't make larger headlines here in USA? Is it because we are trying to tame our own monkeys here that we missed this? 
I understand, there is a tough topic Freedom Of Speech. In USA where we have our First Amendment Constitutional Right is Freedom Of Speech. Allow me to write it here. 

"Amendment I: Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the the free excersize thereof; of abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press, or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the government for a redress of grievances." 

I do have a redress of grievances, that is for sure. Ok, one is a lie. I have a list. 
But, I am talking about the Freedom of Speech. 
I understand that in the EU, they have laws and have to uphold those laws. They will be different than the laws of our land here in USA. The EU made a decision to shut down any hate speeches on places like Facebook, or in the internet platforms. There is freedom of speech and there is, "Whiskey Tango Fox, What did that person just say?!" Like some of our now choice of pickings for the big disgrace of what we call our Elections coming up. (You all know of who I refer to) 
   I was thinking about this the other day. Freedom of Speech, I had to remove a couple of my kids back in the day, from the grocery store, and, had to go as far as not allowing one child for over two years to go in public with me, because of his potty mouth. I had to be very strategic, he'd have to go spend time with his grandpa, or wait for my older son (a teenager) to stay with him. Now, it was only me that he had a potty mouth around. He was a perfect kid around other people. He thought it was just hilarious that he would shout of these embarrassing things in the store. So, when I realized this, instead of changing my day for him, I would bring him and pretend I could not hear him. If I got bad looks from any one I would roll my eyes and say, "Day Care kids!" and immediately, they would have an empathetic look, and say, "hang in there, sweetie". 
  The internet brings out the worst in people. To be honest with you, there are the most stupid people, least talented people become famous over night, and people say and do the most idiotic things on the internet they otherwise would not do or say. I almost like that for once someone is addressing hate speeches. I am not sure I would go as far as to say that they should block all hate speeches though. The reason being? Because I hate some people. I do. I feel they should be hated. I would stand publicly and announce to the world the people I hate. I would, if I were on Facebook, Instagram (etc, But I am not because they are really stupid social media outlets), etc and I would announce who I hate. I would start with many world leaders. Past or Presently. I would start with people that are admired from many partts of the world. I would then end with two people I know personally. Is that really a crime? 
   The people that are cyber bullied (I have been cyber bullied, and that person sealed said person's fate on any further relation to me) should have protection. There are people that, once they have a phone and have a social media app on the phone should never ever have a social media profile. Heck, some people should never be allowed on the internet at all. But, then I would be anti- freedom of speech. Maybe we could allow those people to live in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean on a man made Island (United Arab Emirates does an excellent job with making those Islands) and we could just ship all the idiots that post stupid things on the social media to the island with out internet conncetion for three years. It would be nice. They would have to walk around with a big cork board and post their comments and their opinions on that. That would be awesome for people who are not psycho. HAHAHA That was funny. 
I am not surprised that the EU has come down to that, though. Look at how ethnic groups in the EU are treated. Just August of 2010, France ordered the expulsion of over 8,500 Roma people. At the time President Nicolas Sarkozy was the one who ordered it and backed it. This was not mentioned in the news here, right?  Did France get any form of retribution from the EU for kicking out the Roma people? It was a disgrace for sure. Look how the Bulgarians are treated in the EU. The Greeks were inducted into the EU and then the EU wanted them out, because they were going through one of the worst financial crisis they have seen in decades. (For you people that don't know what happened, think of the Great Depression of America and times it by 50). The EU has also been extremely reluctant to help the Syrian people. In fact, Turkey and The Hashimite Kingdom of Jordan have been the most able to help. Yet, the EU has been really slow about helping them. In fact, they even closed the boarders for Syrians to come in, and did not provide help to aid Turkey in the camps that Turkey has been helping them in the last 5 years or more.
So, the EU wants to take away freedom of speech from the internet. It that what the people want? Hate is hate. Hate speeches are awful, but where do you draw the line? First it will be internet, then books, then TV, then the news... Think of what will happen if the EU follows through with this. Turkey was highly criticized from the EU because of it's ban on YouTube, and that was 5 years ago. They were also critical of Turkish Government (Namely Reciyyip Ergoan) for throwing journalists in prison for speaking their mind, and they were very critical of Erdogan! Actually, it is such a double standard here. Because Erdogan said that the journalists were spreading rumors and writing hate speeches about him! Now the EU wants to take away the peoples right to say things on the internet. It is really a huge double standard. Like I said, I actually don't like social media. I have been off Facebook for quite sometime now and I am off Twitter for over three years, I deactivated my Instagram, and I am really happy about it. My husband is not on social media for over three years now also. But, there are people that get the news from Twitter, and how my husband and I were able to follow what was happening in Syria as it was happening, we went onto a social media outlet because journalists and internet was cut off from the people, but htey had cell phones and we were able to witness what was really happening. 

  I can't advise my dear readers in the EU who need their freedom of speech, because I am not a lawyer. But I can say this, Americans always said, "If it happens in Europe, We will follow." Americans beware. Don't follow Europe on this one. 

Peace All! 
  

Monday, May 16, 2016

I've Noticed A Couple Things

First of all, I would like to start out by saying that I had a head injury about two months ago. I currentlly have P.C.S. (Post Concussive Syndrome). For those of you who don't know what P.C.S. is, within a few days or couple months after a head trauma, (concussion, for example) some people display either synptoms that were there at the time the concussion occured, or their symptoms start surfacing. This is not a common issue, and of people that have reported a concussion, 15% get P.C.S. what is more rare, of those 15%, very few percentage get what I have. Speech impediment. (approx. 1%) 
  I started about 3 days after my head injury, and it has continued the same, with no change, sometimes my pain is worse than other days. I do not take any pain killer for my pain, because I don't want to become dependant on pain killers. I do take a Tylenol from time to time. 

One of my frustrations with this syndrome I  have is my speech. It is my mountain to climb presently. I get impatient with myself or the situation I am in because I can not express myself like I could before this. I also get more confused, irritated when I am confused, am more reclusive because of my speech, etc etc etc. 

  One thing I have noticed are the reactions I get from human adults with relation to my speech impediment. 
I am actually shocked, to be honest with you, as I thought that our society, with how we have so many "Awarenesses" out there, that people would be less ignorant for a lack of better words. 
Adults are strange this way. They feel like they always have something important to say, when they don't and they feel ike they have to have a quick come back for anything. 


People who are ignorant and self taught, are the people who have never known me. They don't know that I am pretty intelligent, have travelled the world, lived in 6-7 countries, have been on 4 continents, lived on 2 Islands, and speak more than 3 languages, and have a degree in Real Estate Law, and Contractual Reading. Oh well. I have digressed. 

   I was at a University going to a class last month when I apporached the door. A volunteer for the campus greeted me. I answered her. The morning was cold and I was warm, however, the woman who was significantly my senoir, upon answering her, laughed and said, "Sounds to me like someone is cold." I did not look at her, nor did I answer her. I would have, and I would have engaged her in a conversaion about speech impediments and manners, but why? What's the point? The point would have probably helped a child or teenager who she might cross a path with and helped her refrain from being a jerk? Or would she? Either way, I had no time to respond. However, since then I have. 

The second type of human adult, who is a bit worse than the aforementioned adult, would be the person or (individuals) whom I have known most of my life, or at least for the past 6 years or more. 
These human adults are worse because they know me and know that I had in the past, a speech impediment, but since my accident, I have a worse or more profound one. In the past when I stuttered as a girl, I checked out a text book from the Library, that taught speech therapists how to give children with impedes therapy helping them with speech. I read them when I was in 5th-6th Grade, and I know what the techiniques are to helping them speak. 
So, knowing that I have have had a slight stutter, something I have been with, because in emotional situations for they they come back, why would someone act as though they are "Calling you out" as though I am pretending that I am faking this issue of mine. Why would I go through such great lengths (even as far as getting an appointment with a neurologist of this magnitude, when there are only 4 in the U.S.A. that specializes in my condition?) Why would I do that? 
Those people are odd to me. They also must have their own garbage they are sortinig out, and find need to gossip about me? 
The third kind of person is the Jerks. 
They have not known me long, but knew me before the accident, and have had a repore with me. They want to come around me as one person put it "Just to laugh at my speech impediment," and ask me to "say something, like..." Just to laugh at me. I have another word for those kind of persons or people, who are not a lot, but as I am above thoem, I shall not say the word (Also because I don't want teenagers eyes to see the word) 

   I will say this. I have noticed another type of person in this. My family (husband), my true friends and kind strangers have been good. They have shown me kindness, patience, and sympathy towards my speech impede. 

Well, this is an observation, and something I wanted dto openly share.    
Be kind, readers! 

Thursday, December 13, 2012

This Winter The Taliban: Part I

This Winter I have been thinking a lot about the Afghanistan people. I have, for years and years, been reading about them. 
 
I really have a disdain for the Taliban. 
 The Taliban has been responsible for the pillage and deaths (meaningless murders- massacres) of thousands of people.

     It is cold during the winters in Afghanistan and Pakistan and there are thousands of displaced people. So, the only option for them is living in make shift tents. They can only accomodate so many people and so the other people who have an over flow, are not "legally" supposed to be in the make shift tents. The Afghanistan and Pakistan Government have come out and told the "illegal" people (who are displaced) to "Go" but where are they to go, really? 
     They are given a small ration of food and hardly any shelter. Apparently the U.N.or N.A.T.O. Soldiers do not turn them away and in fact try to help them. The kids want to, and need to,go to school but they are "illegally" residing in the tents and they found the life expectancy of the infants born in the winter time in this area from the displaced peoples are about two and a half months. This is to say, that if 1,000 new borns are born in the winter, less than 160 of these infants will survive the harsh elements. UN and NATO soldiers give the people what they can, but the governments say that they are there illegally. However, they are in the camps
 because of the Taliban. They have been driven from their homes and farms. They flock to the cities seeking a safe haven from the Taliban.
Let me tell you what the Taliban have taught or teach these people, and tell me they are not the axsis of evil. 

Here are some of the things that had been effected by their reign. 
Systematic Massacres to Civilians
(more than 15 different times in their Reign of Terror) totalling of more than 5,000 people each time.

Mass Killings of Cilivians supported by Pakistani and Arab Troops (meaning they were involved)
Witnesses reported the skinning of civilians, in villages, as part of their genocide. and using long swords for slitting throats and doing such violent acts. 
The Taliban's "Ambassador" to Pakistan said that all these were "necessary"... Please note, he said this in 2011.
I put quotations around "Ambassador, because, to say that word would be recognizing that the Taliban is really a form of government and not terrorists that they really are

 Ethnic Cleansing
Please readers, I wish to not go into detail of what this entails. But, you can only imagine.
The starving of 160,000 people. The UN reported that in 1998, the UNESCO World Food Program had sent, The Taliban had denyed the civilians, which includes all women and children, food. They were starving and in need of emergency supplies. The UN said this is a way to defeat the people in their time of war, starving the people to death. 

Villages being forced into Labor Camps
One Village had 1,500 defenders. On August 8th 1998, The Taliban engaged battle with them, and indsicrmininately and syustematically killed all in the village but 100 people. Reports from the village said Members of the Taliban were raping and slaughtering women in the streets, thousands of people were locked into containers and suffocated. This caused the Iranina Troops to be deployed:: 250,000 of them. 15 Iranian jouranlists were tortured and killed in this attack. The City of Istalif, containing 45,000 people were given a notice of 24 hours to leave, then the city was razed, killing and slaughtereing everyone and any living thing in the city. 
The city of Bamian, Or Bamiyan, where hudreds of people were bombed out of their homes, and the UNESCO (one of the "World Wonder's" Site (Buddha's Statues) were blasted out of the Mountain Side, because it was "not Islamic" and  "anything not Islamic" needed to be erradicated from Afghanistan. 

Human Trafficking
 Thousands upon thousands of women and teenage girls have been kidnapped and sold into forced sex slavery in Pakistan and Afghanistan. The women were mostly (ethnically) Tajik, Uzbek and Harras areas of the Central Asia, and were not just Afghanistan or Pakistan, but they would go into other neighboring countries and encouraged this, telling the families that they were protecting these women. 
Reports of women who commited suicide because they would rather die than be a sex slave skyrocketed in this region. Reports were not just from the Taliban, responsible, but Al- Qeada,  and Pakistan Troops were all involved in the missing, sex slaving and selling of children,teens and women. 

Here is a quote I found from the internet: "Not all men approved of this behavior, some local Taliban commanders were opposed to the human trafficking ordered and conducted by their leaders. One Taliban commander, Nuruludah, is quoted as saying that he and his men freed some women which were being abducted by Pakistani members of Al-Qaeda. A few local Taliban in Jalalabad also freed women that were being held by other Taliban and members of Al-Qaeda in a camp."

I got that quote from wikipedia and the author of the article from Time Magazine. 

Oppression of Women:: 
According to the Physicians of Human Rights, in 1998, reported that there is no other group in the world that is more forceful and oppressive than the Taliban, no other regime in the world has methodically and violently forced half of its population into virtual house arrest prohibiting them on pain of physical punishment. 
Women were (have been) forbidden to be educated.
Girls were forbidden to atten school or University, girls and women were forbidden to go shopping with out a male relative and forced to wear the burqa. (A piece of clothing which completely coveres the head to the feet, with only a small screen to allow the woman to see through for her eyes.)
Women who were (are) walking not with their relative were charged with adultery, and beaten, at times to death, and publicallly. 
After 1998 the oppression of women became more severe and all homes were forced to have a black covering the windows to avoid seeing women in their homes. 
Women were forced off the streets. 
 Employment of women were banned. Because all most teachers in Afghanistan pre- 1996 were tyically women, all schools with women or female teachers and employees were shut down. 
 Hundreds of women were also forced into marriage with Soldiers of the Taliban.
Women were not allowed to go to Hospitals or see Doctors who were pregnant, meaning forced at home birthing with no Doctor (Because women can't work, and Doctors aren't allowed to help with women who are pregnant) 


Other Oppressive Laws, Violating Human Rights: 

The Taliban were forced to be recognized as "Religious Dictatorship"
People under Taliban Rule were not allowed to practice any other religion but what the Taliban said they could practice. 
This included criticizing the Taliban. 
Journalists were killed and anyone writing anything negative about the Taliban
News papers, News Radios and Television was shut down, only things that the Tablian wantedpeople to hear were reported as news.
Laughing, clapping or shouting outside was banned
Men forced to grow beards
Music of any form: banned
Birds as pets: banned
Flying Kites banned
All children must have Muslim names: any NON Muslim must wear a piece of cloth that is yellow to identify if they are Mulism or not. 
Photos of any Living thing (including text books): Banned
Photos of Family: banned
Suits and Ties: Forbidden
Questioning a  Punishing Sharia Police is prohibited. This is to mean that if a Sharia Police is punishing or rather beating a woman or individual, questioning or trying to intervene would be a punishable offense.
 There were many other laws and rules the Taliban had (or have)  
Punishments were:: flogging, amputations, stoning and hanging.

For this reasons, you can see why I prefer the US Troops there in Afghanistan. Civilians being reported dying because Pakistan said they are? I can guarantee that the Pakistan's government, as well as the Taliban that is doing the killing... Pakistan's Troops, Al Qeada and Taliban are using the civilians as human shields.
 And so, this year, I am really worried and thinking of the dear people of the world that are not as fortunate as we are. 

The Taliban and Today::: 
So, why must we think about Taliban and why are we concerned about them now? 

This is why. Because although the best way to rid of the Taliban, it is to rid of each Taliban Member. Starting from the bottom and working upward in ranks.We need to assure that they don't come back. 
We have to understand that as of 1996, when the Islamic State of Afghanistan was formed, the Taliban no longer was supported by the USA. Why did USA support them in the beginning? Well, because the USA was told they were Anti Sharia,(Anti Shi'a)  Pro-Western, and Anti Iranian. The U.S. Government were helping  Afghanistan against the Russians in the war that lasted approximately 20 years. 
The Taliban are different from Al Qadea. I want to make it clear to my readers, and I think I will have to talk more about the Taliban. 

As of Novermber 23rd the Taliban has retreated into Pakistan from Khandahar. This is a small victory but a victory none the less. 
  I have been upon my reaserach wanted to add that the many illegally tent residents were offered land and homes by the Afghanistan Government, however, with the lack of trust in whom to trust, they are too scared to be in a rural area. I also wanted to add that because of the wars, (before 1992, Afghanistan was in war for more othan 20 years with Soviet Union, trying to break free from Communist Rule)
the women are the ones that are suffering the most. This is because they are the ones that are left husband-less and are widowed because of the wars, and the Taliban killing the men who refuse to fight along side them. 

So, this war with the Taliban is really layered and complex. It is not about USA getting bad guys. It is about the UN, NATO along with USA, Great Birtian and Many other countries trying to give back to the people what they have for over 40 years now, have fought for. 
 For all my Central Asian readers. God Bless you at this time, and the best thing I can say to you in words of comfort is a quote I have memorized in my time of hardships. 
..."Peace I leaveth with you, Peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afriad." May peace go within your hearts. May those who can share with others, please share. go to UNCESCO and donate money to the people of Afghanistan. 
  May all your hearts be filled with joy and love and may the people of this world recieve peace. 



A Soldier taking pictures with the children in a Village in Afghanistan. Thier biggest hope is to gain the Civillians trust to help them and protect them from the Taliban.


The Taliban Soldiers. Of course they don't want their faces shown. They are wanting to hide their identity.


Women are forced to wear the burqa.


One of the things that the Taliban does is separate family, the basic nucleous of society


Public beatings is a norm there as chldren and people look on, unable to stop the beatings. The "crime" this woman commited? something simple as a laugh? maybe he didn't like her ankle peering from the burqa?

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Your Stupidity Stifles Me

I will be posting an article. This article is about home birthing in Sudan. 
 Then I want to bash the article... 
 Sounds fun??? 
 Let's go! 


South Sudan women shun hospitals despite childbirth risks

Published On Sun Nov 06 2011
Lushi Rashid (C), a 29 year old muslim South Sudanese woman, gives birth to her fifth child at her family home with the help of her aunt (R) and Regabia Ahmad (L), a qualified birth attendant, in Juba, the capital city of South Sudan, July 18, 2011. Regabia has been delivering babies in South Sudan for over twenty years. she was trained by the health ministry and works at a local primary health clinic. With fewer than 100 trained midwives for a population of over eight million, South Sudan has the highest maternal mortality rate in the world.
Lushi Rashid (C), a 29 year old muslim South Sudanese woman, gives birth to her fifth child at her family home with the help of her aunt (R) and Regabia Ahmad (L), a qualified birth attendant, in Juba, the capital city of South Sudan, July 18, 2011. Regabia has been delivering babies in South Sudan for over twenty years. she was trained by the health ministry and works at a local primary health clinic. With fewer than 100 trained midwives for a population of over eight million, South Sudan has the highest maternal mortality rate in the world.
 
Lushi Rashid throws her arm up in the air, stretches out on the yellow sheets and ululates in pain.
“Jiijiijiiijiii,” she cries as the contractions grow stronger, emitting the high-pitched trilling noise that South Sudanese women make to show emotion.
Sitting on a stool at Rashid’s bedside, midwife Regabia Ahmad shushes her. “It’s not good to shout,” she says gently. “If you shout there is pain; if you don’t shout there is pain. So you keep quiet.”
Though she lives near the country’s best public hospital in Juba, South Sudan’s largest city, the 29-year-old Rashid has decided to have her baby at home with a midwife.
“At the hospital, everyone is trying to do something to make the baby come when it is not yet ready,” she says. “At home. . . there are not so many people.”
Ahmad, 42, takes off her watch, washes her hands and puts on plastic gloves. The baby will be born in about an hour, at 5:30 this afternoon, she predicts.
Ahmad has been delivering babies for more than 20 years, through the country’s civil war and afterward. She was trained by the state health ministry and works at a local health clinic. Rashid is one of the lucky 10 per cent of women in the country who will see a qualified birth attendant.
With fewer than 100 trained midwives for a population of more than 8 million, South Sudan has the highest maternal mortality rate in the world. For every 100,000 live births in the country, 2,054 women die, according to statistics from the United Nations Development Program (UNDP). It’s a situation the health minister of the East African nation has called “our greatest nightmare.” A woman in South Sudan has a one-in-seven chance of dying in childbirth over the course of her lifetime.
The world’s newest country — it gained independence in July after more than 20 years of civil war — South Sudan is chronically underdeveloped. Even among African nations, where the maternal mortality rates tend to be highest, it stands out. In neighbouring Uganda, for example, only 435 women die for every 100,000 births, says the UNDP. (In Canada, the number is 12, according to Unicef’s 2008 figures.)
Here, “most of the population doesn’t have a health unit and if they do, there’s no health provider and no drugs,” says Dr. Abadallah Mergani, head of obstetrics at Juba Teaching Hospital, the nation’s largest.
On a busy weekday morning, Mergani rushes between making rounds, operating the ultrasound machine and administering the ward. He’s one of only a handful of obstetricians in the country.
The majority of women who die in childbirth here suffer from haemorrhaging and sepsis, treatable problems in the developed world. The absence of qualified medical personnel, along with the lack of health facilities and transportation difficulties — the nation has only 50 kilometres of paved road — can render otherwise minor complications fatal.
And a lack of medical supplies means doctors are sometimes unable to help even those women who do make it to the hospital. “Some even die while we are looking for blood,” says Mergani. The hospital has no blood bank.
Since the end of the civil war in 2005, there have been efforts to reduce the maternal mortality rate, but the country has a long way to go. “In some areas you are starting from the ground up,” says Gillian Garnett, a midwifery specialist with the United Nations Population Agency.
The agency has a recruitment program for midwives but has found it difficult to attract people since midwifery is traditionally considered a low-status profession in South Sudan.
And there are other cultural factors at play. Even where hospitals are accessible, women often choose not to go to them.
It can be seen as a sign of weakness to give birth in the hospital. “Women feel that they have to show strength,” says Garnett. “In the hospital, they feel like you are pampered.”
Furthermore, “it’s the culture that a lady should deliver at home with her family around her, her mother, her grandfather, her sisters,” says Mergani.
Accordingly, standing over Lushi Rashid in her bedroom are her aunt and sister.
Her 3-year-old son has been shooed outside by the midwife, but he peers in the window. A neighbour pops her head over the fence to check on the progress of the birth.
Rashid’s mother enters the bedroom and sprinkles water over her daughter’s abdomen. It’s a blessing for the good health of mother and child. There’s no need for her daughter to go to a hospital, Marcelina Dudu believes.
“Before, during the war there were no (hospitals). I had three sets of twins without fear at home. Even Lushi was born at home. They were all born at home,” she says.
The contractions become closer together and Rashid ululates louder and more frequently.
Ahmad reaches under the sheet covering Rashid’s knees and, almost before the others in the room know what’s happening, pulls a baby boy out from between the mother’s legs. After a second, he emits a strong, healthy cry.
The midwife wraps the baby in a purple blanket and consults her watch. Just as she predicted, it’s just a few minutes before 5:30.
Mama Dudu pulls out her mobile phone and calls friends and relatives.
Despite the pain of the ordeal, and the fact that she has four other children, Rashid says she wants to have more. “I want to take some time and then I want a girl because I have all boys,” she says.
Her husband, Amin Rashid, arrives home about an hour later. He’s been at work; men rarely attend their children’s births in South Sudan.
He knows of women who have died in childbirth but he approves of his wife’s decision to deliver at home. “The hospitals in Juba are poor. All the (government) ministers here, when their wives have one or two months remaining, they go to Nairobi or Kampala (to deliver).”
Collecting her medical supplies, Ahmad prepares to leave. She doesn’t know it yet, but when she arrives home she will be called to attend another birth that will keep her out until the early hours. Given the small number of midwives in the nation, she’s always on call.
Ahmad gets paid for her work as a midwife by the government. But despite long hours and a culture in which government workers often ask for a little something extra from those for whom they perform services, she doesn’t charge the families.
She sees her work as a kind of vocation. “If you give me something, I will take it; if you do not give me anything, I do not ask. This is the work God gave me to do.”


 OK...I know a woman that is a friend of mine living in the tiny country of Eritrea. They have many ties to Sudan and not only that she has been one of the fore-runners in trying to get more Birthing hospitals in SUDAN (dun dun dunnnnnn) 
  This is an article that is misleading, and parts are fabricated. I am shocked to think this is supposed to be a pro- give- birth- at- home article! 
  Let's Start with each fact as they are given.

 This article is just a lie, glamorizing how easy it is to give births to babies in Africa. Given the fact that Africa has one of the highest malnutrition-ed rates, why would Doctors put babies at a greater risk by inducing pre-term or early labor? That is just not making any sense at all. That is a full blown lie. 
Not so many people?
 There are kids watching you have your baby through the window and you think that is more private to have a baby in the living room of your home than in a hospital?


Qualified Birth attendant is not correct either. 
I have a friend who works for the Department of State in The Region (Sudan and Eritrea). One of the projects they are working on is more facilities for giving birth. In order to do this they must meet with the local people and they have to see the needs of the people. Qualified is not correct because the "Midwives" just walk around telling people they know how to deliver and they basically can there. FACT: The same person that delivers babies in Sudan also circumcises young girls. (Another topic I will be talking about soon)


Another Fact: In Sudan there is only one Hospital, and there is only one OBGYN. All the women interviewed by the Dept of State and by a Doctor who is Sudanese and she is also very knowledgeable of the Culture and country, she said that the women DO want to have their babies in hospitals and that the women there do not understand why Western Women, upon hearing opting to have their babies at home, and not in a hospital. 
 Having a baby in a hospital is a luxury there but they are not condemned by having babies in the Hospitals at all. In fact, they can not get to the hospitals in time and Upon interviewing Eritrean women they laughed when told that American women were having babies at home because "African Women can do it" well, yeah, African women have no choice in the matter.

Another Fact: There is less road than what the article mentioned. 


Another Fact: Midwifery is not considered a low status job, it is the cold hard truth that when you are hired by the Government, now to be a midwife or any Medical Profession in Sudan, to get rid of FGM (or Circumcising Females) They must not perform this Traditional and yet horrible and needless practice and so the Midwives that are not choosing to work as one under legal terms are actually still doing that practice which makes the jobs of the hospitals more difficult. 
Notice how when she says there are less people in home and more people in the hospital, later you read about how the whole family is there, how neighbors peer through the fence to see if she has had her baby, how the children are being shooed out of the living room and how the Grandfather, mother, sisters, etc are all there waiting for the arrival of the baby? Don't you think that is in itself contradictory? The only thing that was correct in the article was the fact that Sudan is the highest death rate among newborns and the highest death rate while giving birth in the world. The fact that in The Star they mention that the woman giving birth was Muslim is a huge slap in the face to Muslims and had nothing to do with article. Why mention t? There are idiot Christian women in Europe and in USA that give birth to their children at home, and so why would they mention it? does it make the article more factual? What would that make readers think about Muslims? About how they give birth? Their ideas of giving birth at homes? I found it annoying to think that they would even say anything about the Religious practice of anyone mentioned in the article. 


This article after reading it myself, made me more inclined to tell people how stupid they are for having babies at home. those that are in Africa most women have no choice! But First World and even Second World women (yes.. You Europeans) You guys should never be playing with your life nor your child's life by thinking you are smarter than a Doctor and cleaner than a Hospital. Why do you want to risk infections, diseases and all kinds of problems by having a baby in your living room? It is disgraceful and you do not know more than highly trained doctors. 
 I know someone that had 8 children. 7 born at home but her 7th was born and lived a very short life and died. I am inclined to say that she is an idiot for never seeking Prenatal Care never having ultra sounds that would have saved her baby not only from dying but from SUFFERING because she had no idea her baby was SUFFERING and dying!!! That is pure being stupid and Brutal. 
 Clearly her 8th child born the one year anniversary of the death of her 7th child, was indeed born in a hospital. And oddly... She even had an epidural and said, "If I'd have known all my births were like this I would have had ALL My children born in a hospital"
Women in the Second and First world countries have the choice of having a Doctor there at the birth only if it is a medical emergency, and can have nurses and midwives deliver the babies if they wish. These trained and qualified people can deliver in Clinics, and Birthing Centers and do not have to be in a hospital yet you still get the feeling of home but you are in a cleaner environment than that of a home surrounded by little kids, neighbors and the family dog chasing a ball while you are trying to have a baby. 
 I would even respect a mother choosing to have her child at a Clinic and saying... Well, I have had bad experiences with Doctors... I prefer a Midwife.. I respect that more then the women that say, "Babies in Africa are born all the time with no problems in conditions worse than mine... I don't need a Dr"... For those women I say, Your Stupidity Stifles Me
  






 



If Guns Kill People, and Food Makes People Fat, Then Pencils Make People Stupid


   I have a friend on FB that is really... Let's say... quirky? 
She has opinions that I completely disagree with but I really enjoy being her friend. She is a nice person. Sometimes I think what she says is completely off, but I still likeher. 
She posted the other day a 60 minutes about natural food flavorings and the Government.
 I am annoyed with the interviewer in the segment because of this... 

 The people buying the products can read the labels on the boxes. Natural FLAVORS does not mean that the product is Natural nor does it mean that it comes from the actual thing that is was made. I know that. Maybe many people don't, Think of it like this... How can anyone baking cookies get upset when finding out that "Imitation Vanilla" is not "Pure Vanilla" and I will go as far to say that Imitation Vanilla might have Natural ingredients but it is still not "Real" Vanilla..
 So when I watched the segment... And they were trying to explain where the flavoring come from... Imagine jars and jars of imitation vanilla only they are more like thousands of different flavors. 
  As I was watching, the interviewer was trying to put the blame for people being fat... Because of the flavoring industry. 
   They said that because the flavoring industry is trying to get people to want to buy them more. 
So let me ask the interviewer... When he sits down at a nice restauarant... He does not want his food to taste flavorful? It really annoyed me to think that the Government can put blame on the flavoring food industry for a bunch of fat kids. 
 Last time I checked... you don't even get fat eating M&M's. But you DO get fat eating a candy bar a day, along with 1500 calories of sugars and fats. 
   I am so annoyed with yet another thing that our Government wants to blame... Guns kill--let's buy all the guns from every sorry ass American and make them think that they are getting the good end of the deal. Alcohol makes people crazy, let's just out law All Alcohol!!! In the 1970's it was Marijuana makes people crazy... When we all know what happened there. I am sick of the Government telling me because people get fat, I can not have a Whopper... Oh and now you can not have salt with it... I hate that! 
I say
 If Guns Kill People, and Food Makes People Fat, then, Pencils Make People Stupid!

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Pondering Things

It is September 11, 2011. 
today has marked the 10 year Anniversary that Americans lives have been forever changed. 
 
I posted this on my Fb wall but feel I should repost it here
I am so tired of hearing how bad Americans are. I am tired of hearing how it is our fault for everything gone wrong with other people's Nations. I am tired of hearing how Democracy is this or that! I say... We are here as humans put on this big planet to learn to love and get along. Many people have lost lives regardless of skin color or nationality. My country is not perfect, and by all means I do not agree with everything my presidents do, but, We are trying to move forward and move on and we want peace in all lands. We want people to live good happy lives all over the world. That is really the true American Spirit. the American dream is that people can live where they are happy, where they are free and where they can prosper. That is what we really want. And yes... I think I will have to use the Delete Button for anyone that does not wish to have something about peace or kindness to humanity
We Americans have in our own way been through many many hardships before and since 9-11. 
We- the majority of us Americans do not believe that our own Government took part in conspiring to the events of 9-11. 
If anything we were very complacent. We thought that nothing like that would happen to us. We thought that we were too far from other places that have this happen so often. We hear about terrorism in other parts of the world but we did not understand where parts of the world are. 
Dear Reader, we are not ignorant to the world, we are just wrapped up in our homes, jobs, families, work, school, our own problems we never thought about other people in other lands that would hurt us only because we never think of hurting them
  We have a different way of thinking than other parts of the world. 
We all want the same thing, that is peace. We all want the world to be a better place. 
We want people to have what we have because we hold dear the freedom we have. We feel it is something everyone deserves to have. I do not believe in forced democracy, but I do believe that we can all find a way to peace and I hope that everyone has the same freedoms I was raised with. I mourn for 9-11. It was a huge trauma for me and my friends.
But I look to the future with hope that our lives will turn for the better for all the world. That we will all have the freedom, joy and carefree lives that I was raised with in my Motherland. 
 Peace to you all. Love and Harmony to the world.




Monday, August 22, 2011

Talking about others

So, I have had a lot of things on my mind. 
  I have been thinking about words. Words we use to each other and words we say to others. 
  Words do not always intend to hurt. Sometimes they are matter of fact. 
 However, words hurt. 
  When I was younger, not a whole lot smaller, but I was in 5th grade, there were a group of boys that would follow me on the play ground during lunch. They would say really mean and hurtful things to me. I would come home and tell my mom. The things they said would really ruin my whole day. I would have a perfectly fine day, but by lunch time would come around, my day would be destroyed. Everyday I would come home and tell my mom about it. 
  I played the cello in the morning and would carry my cello with me to school an hour sometimes two hours before school started. The boys that would be really mean to me on the playground had older siblings that would go to school with my older sisters. They, too would pick on me. I would try everything I could to not walk near the bus stops and even I would go across the street to avoid walking near the bus stops. I had to be at the school at /:15 to set up  my cello and play by 7:25-7:30. We would play until 8:45. I would come home from playing the cello and beg my parents to take me to the school the next day. My parents would say things lie... Tell them I 'm sorry you feel that way... Or try ignoring them... MY parents would even tell me the all time favorite lie parents tell their daughters when a boy is bullying:"Boys do that because they have a big crush on you" bit. I did everything that my parents told me. I would say the stupid things they would tell me to say, I would ignore them when they told me to, but much to my chagrin, the boys got worse. Everyday it was worse and worse. There were about 4-5 boys. Sometimes, on the way home from school the boys would throw rocks at me. They would hit me in the back of the head, they would throw dirt at me and they would kick me. One day the boys threw burrs in my hair. I had long hair and my mom and I were allergic to the burrs and my mom had to spend about two hours getting the burrs out of my hair. When that happened, I thought,"Like me? They LİKE ME???" I really started to grow a sense of resentment towards the fact that my parents were so complacent to the situation. I felt like I was deserted by everyone. By the end of the school year, I was so happy that I had three months away from the boys.(I had to see them at church and a couple of the kids were in my Sunday School Class) Our family was going to spend the whole Summer in Alaska and I would not have to endure them for a long time. To say the least I was so excited because by the time I left 5th Grade, They had decided to include in their Vendetta against me many of the girls in my own class, In deed I was being pecked at by many kids before the Summer had begun. 
   When I came back for 6th Grade, I was the tallest in the class and even taller than my Teacher, who was actually really very tall. I was about an inch taller than her and I was 5' 9". 
  ıt only took about four days into the school year for the ids  to start up on their being mean to me again. I could not understand it. I was tired of it. The teasing got more and more worse. 
  One day, I thought... I will snap. I did. One boy whom I shall remain here nameless but I will call him Hermie Wah Wah because that is what I named him because he was not nice to me at all... Took my pencil. We were taking a test where you have to use only pencils and color in the bubble.. He took the only pencil I had right out of my hand. I was shocked. He was violating the rules. The teacher said to us that there will be no talking, do not look at anyone's papers, if you need to get up raise your hand and the teacher will come to you and you can tel her what you need. So, I raised my hand. Seeing that this was a time issue because the tests were timed, I had raised my hand for 3 minutes but it felt like 15, I told him... Give me my pencil. No, he said and was smiling. I said give it now. He smiled and said No. I said I am going to count to 5 if you do not give me my pencil you will regret taking it. One... He stuck his tıngue out at me. Two, he smiled and threw my pencil. Three he started laughing Four... He sat there and Five... POW... I socked him right in the eye as hard as I could. He went flying out of his seat. I was shocked he went flying. I honestly thought he would just sit there but he went flying. Next thing I knew it I was being dragged out into the hallway where the teacher was so upset at me. ME! Hermie stole my pencil, threw it across the room and I told him he was going to regret doing it. I warned him before I punched him and I was nice... I counted before punching him, too. I felt like I was being fair because of all the ridicule I had been through up to the point that one more thing just really pushed  me over the edge. My teacher said Why? I said I raised my hand, You did not come, I had to finish my test and He would not give it back. I counted before I punched him and I told him 4 times before to give me my pencil back. She was at a loss. I was never like that before the bullies. I really had no idea he would go flying like that but I did intend to punch him. I did not get suspended, nor did I get a write up. I did have to take the test alone and in another room but that did not bother  me the least amount. What happened? Hermie went home with a badly bruised nose, and two black eyes. What happened to everyone around me? They stopped all mean things to me. One girl was mean to me, I pulled her hair really hard and after that we became the best of friends. She is still my friend to this day. We even joke about all the things we used to do together. Those boys? They were my friends on FB... And a couple of years ago for some reason Snuggle told me to delete them from FB... But we actually became really good friend. 
 The point to this is that there is a saying, "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me." For some reason I never bought into that. Words hurt me and worse than most people. 
  What did I learn about those bullies? What I learned is that people are bullies to people and will say things to them and about them, but the more they speak ill or think about someone, the easier it is to continue to speak and thin badly about those around you. It is human to judge others and to be rude. It is not the right way to be though, and interesting enough, the more rude or bad you think about others, the worse you feel about yourself! It is so easy to think and speak very badly about others when they are not in the room. But what does that do to you? First of all it makes you look bad. Second of all, there is a type of person that does that and people do not trust them. Third of all they end up really having a poor self esteem because the whole reason they are speaking ill about others is to make themselves feel better but it does not work that way. The exact opposite happens. They actually start feeling like they are being thought ill about the person they are speaking ill about. Sometimes, and in most cases this can be true, If they speak the same language. However, when the person that is being spoken about is in a different country and even in a place where they do not speak that language, they do not hear nor understand all that is being said about them, they do not have to hear all the bad. So that means that they do not think badly about the person that is in fact talking bad about them. I think for the person being rude and speaking badly about the person that is not done anything... That is good redemption time. That can be a blessing. 
  It never ever is a good thing to speak bad about others because there is no good that comes out of it. 
 It makes you ... The person talking... Like you are the one with the problem
The person you are talking about can not trust you
The person you are talking about feels uncomfortable
You make it uncomfortable when you talk about others in a bad way behind thier back
It brings a negative feeling around you
It makes others think "If she or he can say that about that erson what are they saying when I am not there about me?"
 I have never tolerated this type of behavior and I found that those that do have nothing in their lives but the want of creating a soap Opera that does not exist but rather, a perpetual dramatization of  Wo is me and how bad my life is... Let's pick on someone today to make myself feel better... 
 I have also found that speaking bad about others makes it easier and easier to dislike that person. There are few people in life I really dislike. Fewer people I hate. Yes, I hate a few people in my life. But, I would not even talk ill about those people because I feel that it only causes me to look bad and I really do not want to hate anyone. I find that taking it to the next level by not just talking about someone but continually finding false with that person is such an easy out to something more sinister. I think there is a deep rooted jealousy and envy over something. Maybe is attention, maybe is something else but I really find that on a continuous basis someone that keeps looking for the bad things in someone... There is somethings more sinister plan that is going on and for that I am taking my discernment and staying away from any of those people. 
 I have also thought to post this song on my blog because it is how I feel about how people can say bad about me when they have no idea about me


    I can not get this song on here... Ugh



This is the perfect song for how I feel about people talking bad about me