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Monday, December 5, 2011

Facebook and Other Open Social Networks

So, I have been doing a lot of thinking lately. 
  I have been thinking about Twitter, Facebook and other Social Medias. People say anything they want to on those webpages... and on here. Well, it is our right... Correct? I mean the First Amendment and everything? Well, we all know words do hurt. That old fashioned "Sticks and Stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me" I just don't buy it. 
 Words leave scars that you do not see in the heart. And mind.
With this said... I have a large family. I am also highly opinionated. And I do not like Dead Beat Dads. Social Networking, Dead Beat Dads and Me... One is bound to get lethal and I am usually the one to get lethal on the subject. 
  When it comes to my family, I am highly protective, as well and so when my niece writes how she is having a baby with her at the time boyfriend, I think oh, nice, he will marry her.
But after 6 years of dating the jerk he left her. I don't know the whole story, but I do know this, it crushed her world. She decided to keep the baby and finish school and be a single mom. So, when she had the baby and his family were kept as her friend on Facebook I was like... OK weird... But I never said anything. I would not have gone that route, but whatever. 

  And often he does not pay child support... OK never... EVER does he pay child support and yet she allows him to take the baby (who is now almost 3) I never said anything. I kept my mouth very closed... And when she will write about her frustrations as a single mother on Facebook again... I do not say anything just ... Hugs or whatever
 So tonight, I saw that she wrote that He did not bring her baby back and she is really upset about it... I said... I am sorry he is not trust worthy. 
  That was all... Nothing more... But I wanted to say a lot... I mean A LOT
  I  did not. 
 And her wall so I thought... Ok whatever... I thought I was being supportive. 
  Anyway... Her EX Boyfriend's sister comes bouncing in the comments saying STFU about y brother he loves his daughter and (my niece) treats him like a dead beat dad... I was like Whoa! wait... (my niece ) never said anything like that and so I said... Well look you don't need to go off swearing, and no one said your precious darling brother is a dead beat but only a few times he has not paid child support according to the FB posts and he can love his daughter all he wants but that  does not make him trust worthy, and if you have a problem with my niece who does work harder than any single mother ı have seen you should bring it up privately with her instead of hitting her up on FB about it... And Guess who got blocked from my nieces page? 
  Yes, me. 
 First off, I understand she is 26 and has to look cool to everyone on FB about things... But if you are going to post things openly about how your X is not stepping up and how he is not doing this or that... Then, dude... Face up to it and own your Shit. Own it all. If you are going to have your privates dangle for all the world to see then, dude... Own up to it.  
Second of all
 Why are you going to befriend people that will protect the person that slaps you and makes you look like an idiot?
 Thirdly: Why block the person that was actually protecting you and coming to your defense? 
So not cool


I just read a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt, "Do what you feel is right in your heart, for you will be criticized anyway". 
 I just wanted to say this on here because I did not want to make it obvious of whom I am speaking.
  And if you don't want your shit posted all over the place... Don't post on Facebook!!! (can you be more stupid? )

 

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