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So, I've got a certain family member.
We have never really gotten on at all. When we were kids we fought and when we got older it just got worse.
This person wasn't ever really nice to me and I've always tried my best to be nice to her. To no avail.
When I was younger she stole my Social Security Number. She did a lot of crimes with it and did in fact had been arrested under my name several times. This has been a great stress to me. What is worse is a few years ago she had with her father, took my name, social security number and went to a public records place, obtained a birth certificate, went to a city DMV and obtained a picture ID. She then went to a Deptartment where she was able to get free rent paid for, under all my name etc.
She clot fraud with her father in this way; her father was living with her. They were living in his sister's home. So, her aunt was collecting rent under my name, getting money from the State, her father,, her aunt and herself all knew what she was doing and all benefitting from this.
She also stole some checks and with a picture ID of my name and with my Social Security Number, cashed checks.
She's over dosed on Drugs and used my name at hospitals for drugs, and hospital fees, of more than 90,000 Dollars.

Now this person has discovered Facebook. I laugh at her profile picture because she does in fact use a mug shot of her from 15 years ago. And I think that is just so, oh my hell funny.
She requested me as her friend honestly, I want nothing to do with her.
But I accepted her as friends of mine and blocked her from seeing things on my account. But, I feel bad. I want to block her but I've already added her as a friend.
She has weaseled herself into my life in a very uncomfortable way.
I did write her. I told her that is being friends on Facebook is not an invitation to my life. I told her I have no trust in her.
And she wrote me and said "(name of friend) said you're getting married and was wondering if I was going. But I didn't get an invitation". I wrote her back with "I'm not feeling inclined to tell you when I marry because I only invite people to my wedding that I can somewhat trust." She said that certain family members said I was thinking about marriage but not made any set plans.
I said, "I've got plans for the future but none of those plans includes you, I'm sorry if you think it's rude but you never were nice to me and you never did anything that earned my trust nor desire to include you in my life."
I don't know how anyone else would do in my situation.
I have spoken with lawyers about changing my Social Security Number and basically, in the 28 years this lawyer has tried only one person was ever allowed to change it. Apparently Judges feel that getting your identity stolen isn't reason enough to change their numbers. However, former Mafia hitmen are able to have their identity changed. Ok. So they are being chased by the Mafia. But you know identity fraud is not taken very seriously. It's a huge violation. And when it's a family it's really a deeper wound.
Well, I just hope I don't regret adding her.
Have a great week, my readers.